I'm just going to own this; I'm the sort of person who can't separate my personal from my professional. If I've got a problem in non-academic related stuff, it's going to affect my work. I guess my personal life just seems more important. Ahaha. And maybe it is. But the trick is to find techniques to deal with it, so it doesn't have to ruin your work or study. The voice of reason, often in the form of close individuals, is way better than that internal monologue you've got going on in a loop. Not taking the needle off that record is how you end up muttering to yourself as you walk down the street.
Love and important friendships can be the hardest things to cope with when there's a problem. They are, after all, the people who define you, and without whom you feel alone. And sometimes, you are going to be alone. That's for sure lah. But it doesn't have to last forever. Figuring out who you are, what matters to you in another person, frees you to find the people with whom you can form significant connections.
If something is weighing on my mind, it's likely that talking to a sympathetic and objective person will relieve my burden. I'm missing my mum as I'm writing this. So yeah.
random photo. hee~
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2 says:
it is all a state of mind dear - when you rasa benda tu ringan and nothing than it wont effect you but if you rasa berat pedih or celaru then it become heavy at heart and on your mind as well
i hope all is ok remember this, one day when you look back all this is nothing
dont matter how celaru or or berat, tenang kan hati and all will become easier - so that yr profesional life is intact - love is beautiful but it can hurt definitely but it is not the end of the world - find yourself and hold it together and you will be OK :D
su yani tu saya ye :)
happy days dear
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